EP 243 – Navigating Life as a Replant Family
The Stewe Krewe joins us this week to share their experiences and insights from their experience growing up in a replant.
The discussion covers the challenges and blessings of moving for ministry, the importance of family bonding, advice for pastors on spending quality time with their families, and the unique perspectives of the children as pastor’s kids. They emphasize the value of creating core family values, the impact of ministry on family life, and the crucial balance between church responsibilities and family relationships.
00:00 Introducing the Stew Krewe: A Family Affair
00:49 The Big Move: From New Orleans to Jacksonville
01:24 Adjusting to New Beginnings and Challenges
02:05 Kids’ First Memories of the Replant in Jacksonville
04:26 Advice for Pastors from the Family Perspective
06:45 Family Time: Building Bonds and Making Memories
09:53 Advice for Replant Pastors’ Kids: Being an Example and Helping Out
17:16 Nostalgic Tales from the Church
17:32 Favorite Childhood Memories
18:32 The Challenges and Joys of Church Replanting
19:48 The Best and Worst Parts of Having Kids in a Replant
20:23 Dealing with Negativity in Ministry
22:10 Embracing Imperfection and Authenticity
22:52 The Hardest Part of Being a Pastor’s Wife
24:42 Raising Kids with Core Values
25:49 Final Thoughts on Parenting and Family Values
[00:00:00] JimBo Stewart: Here we are back at the bootcamp, back at it again. I hope you’re ready for the next episode. I have the most special of special guests that have ever special
guested
on the replant bootcamp podcast today. I have the entire stew crew, with us for a special replant family podcast. Hey everybody.
Welcome to the
[00:00:20] Cash Stewart: Hi Dad! Hey!
[00:00:21] Magnolia Stewart: What’s up?
[00:00:23] JimBo Stewart: So here we have my beautiful, wonderful wife of 20 years, this July, Ms. Audrea
Stewart,
[00:00:29] Audrea: Yes, I am here. The mama of the
crew.
[00:00:32] JimBo Stewart: the
mama of the crew, and then our oldest, when this goes out, will be 17, Tripp
Stewart.
[00:00:38] Tripp Stewart: Hello!
[00:00:39] JimBo Stewart: That’s him, and then Cash Stewart will be 15 this
year.
[00:00:43] Cash Stewart: Hey everybody!
[00:00:45] JimBo Stewart: And
then Magnolia will be 13 this
year.
So,
house full of teenagers, and a little over ten years ago, we moved to Jacksonville,
Florida, to replant on the west side of Jacksonville.
And we were there for seven years. So, you guys were six, four, and two when we moved to Jacksonville.
[00:01:04] Audrea: Yeah, that was a crazy time. Because we were, we had left from, New Orleans. And, Jimbo was like, hey, I think we’re gonna move to Florida. And I was like, really? Cause I have a really nice, support system here. And we’re gonna take a 2 year old, like, away from all that. So that was, um, That was pretty
crazy.
[00:01:24] JimBo Stewart: And it was a tough landing like I think within six months I had walking
pneumonia.
[00:01:28] Audrea and Mags: Well, let’s be real, like you and I had both grown up
on central time zone. So we grew up in Mississippi, had lived in New Orleans. so we moved a six, a four,
a 2-year-old all the way to Eastern Time zone.
And then two weeks later. it was Daylight Savings Time. So, that, that,
[00:01:48] JimBo Stewart: that was
crazy.
So time
[00:01:49] Audrea and Mags: changed
back.
to back. Yeah, so two hours off of our normal schedule.
So,
I
mean, it was
[00:01:54] JimBo Stewart: the people around us supporting the
group of friends
[00:01:58] Audrea and Mags: Exactly. And we were homeschooling at the time. We still are homeschooling.
So, I mean, there was a
lot
of
new
changes.
[00:02:04] JimBo Stewart: Alright,
so
I want to hear from each of you kids.
what stood out to you, like, what’s your earliest memory of the replant here in Jacksonville?
Let’s go first, Mags.
[00:02:14] Audrea and Mags: I’d probably say, walking into church,
in my like, pink dress, and bow and everything, and like, little kid stuff.
just seeing everyone, and everyone
being really
tall.
[00:02:26] JimBo Stewart: The earliest one I can
think
of is
[00:02:31] Cash Stewart: Um, the earliest one I can think
of
is being in the nursery with Miss Sandra, who is our preschool teacher, and playing the game about
the
rug.
[00:02:42] JimBo Stewart: the
rug.
[00:02:44] Tripp Stewart: for
me,
it would be When we remodeled what used to be the youth room when we kind of just cleared all that out, it was just kind of a junk room.
When Do you
remember
that?
[00:02:57] JimBo Stewart: Yeah.
Yeah. The
white one.
[00:02:59] Tripp Stewart: Uh, the,
the white
building
in the
back.
the white building in the back, uh, just kind of dumping
all
that stuff
out.
[00:03:04] JimBo Stewart: Yeah, that was, uh, if people have heard me talk about filling up construction size dumpsters, that was where a few
of
those,
came
from.
[00:03:11] Audrea and Mags: I also remember, Miss Andrea’s thing. I wanted
to
say that, too. A
couple of my earliest memories of you guys is walking in the first time with U Trip and your first words as soon as we walked in was it
smells
like
old
people.
[00:03:27] Cash Stewart: ha ha
ha! You
didn’t
you didn’t
say
[00:03:30] Audrea and Mags: say it
[00:03:30] JimBo Stewart: I said, please
be
quiet. Yeah,
there
[00:03:32] Tripp Stewart: were people there that heard that. It did
smell like old
people.
[00:03:36] JimBo Stewart: people.
It did. And
Cash,
[00:03:39] Audrea and Mags: and cash. I believe like Because they didn’t have children’s church at the time and so you guys were just hanging out
with
me.
Yeah,
and so this
was
When they used to allow anybody to give announcements like from the floor And so you raised your
[00:03:52] JimBo Stewart: yeah.
Well, after they would do the announcements, they would say, Does
anyone
else
have
any
[00:03:58] Audrea and Mags: Well, no, they didn’t say announcements.
Does anyone else have anything else to say? I remember it. And you being the sweet little literal kid you were, you raised your hand and said, and they’re like, Okay, Cash, and everybody kind of chuckled, and you said,
God is
a
very big
[00:04:12] JimBo Stewart: big God.
That’s what you
said. Which
it uh, it really is.
[00:04:20] Cash Stewart: it it really is.
I mean, the Earth is
[00:04:22] JimBo Stewart: big
planet.
Alright, so here’s what I want to move to next, from each of you. What advice would you have for the pastors listening?
Not the kids,
we’ll go to the
kids next.
[00:04:34] Audrea and Mags: I’d
probably give advice about making time. I think my dad has definitely done a really good job of that, and I definitely know him more for it. Like, maybe
taking
a day
off,
every
now and
then, or like, during your breaks, just going out
in the yard
and
playing
catch,
something
like that.
[00:04:53] Cash Stewart: Alright.
[00:04:54] Tripp Stewart: that’s good.
[00:04:55] Cash Stewart: yeah,
I would
have
to, agree with that and add on to it. Finding things that you can do, like extracurriculars, with your kids. Not just being home and talking about work and looking at work emails saying
that
you’re
home.
But actually spending time and quality time with your family, your wife and kids.
because,
They
do miss you, like, a lot
when
you’re gone,
and the older they get, the more they realize, oh wait, he’s gone,
and,
like,
if you don’t spend time with them, the hard truth is they might start to think that you don’t care about
them,
and
so
on,
[00:05:29] JimBo Stewart: And I’ll
be honest, I,
I
wasn’t
always
the
best
at
that, was I?
[00:05:34] Cash Stewart: you used to be, uh, you used to be, uh, gone a lot, but you’ve, we found
ways
to
really,
like,
keep
it
going,
[00:05:40] JimBo Stewart: Yeah, it was, it was hard for me not to bring work home,
and that’s
definitely looking back, something I wish
I would
have done
better.
Tripp, what
advice
would
you
have for
the
pastors?
[00:05:49] Tripp Stewart: I would say your kids are definitely going to be looked at a lot.
They’re going to be considered role models
and
people will look to your kids as an example
of you.
But I would not raise your kids, to just be good for the church’s sake. I would say raise your kids so that they will be good kids. Not put the pressure of them that, you know, If they’re not good kids, it looks bad on you or
the
church.
[00:06:16] Audrea and Mags: Yeah, like kids that you want to hang out with
when you’re older. Like, would I like to be this kid’s friend when they’re adults?
Am I just preparing them to leave, or am I preparing
them
to
be
good
friends?
[00:06:31] JimBo Stewart: friends?
Good that I’m hearing you say is Good kids.
Don’t make the fact that they are pastor’s kids
be
part
of
your
expectations on
their behavior.
[00:06:44] Audrea and Mags: Yeah. One of my
favorite things, I think through those years at Redemption, and I think we’ve talked about this before, because our schedule could be kind of crazy.
We, we had
special days
set
aside.
Yeah, we, like, watched
movies
together as a family.
[00:07:01] Cash Stewart: it was
on
like
Wednesdays, I
think,
[00:07:03] JimBo Stewart: So yeah,
so Wednesday nights after church. Because we knew Wednesday was gonna be a long, long day. And so, Wednesday
nights
after
church,
we
would try
to do something together.
[00:07:12] Cash Stewart: and
other
and
even
other
than that,
we sometimes whenever we made time, we played tennis
because
there
was
a tennis
court
like right by
the church.
we didn’t really
[00:07:21] Tripp Stewart: know how,
[00:07:21] Cash Stewart: but
we had
fun
with
our
dad. Uh, and now like we’re playing disc golf
with
our
dad And
we
actually
know
how
to
play
that,
So it’s
[00:07:28] Tripp Stewart: really fun.
and then also, every Monday, we would try to have breakfast. Or at least, if not Monday, we’d try to make it up sometime that week.
And just have breakfast and eat
as
a
family
together.
[00:07:43] Audrea and Mags: guys
Made me feel special. And, like, y’all guys
really
cared about making relationships
with us.
[00:07:49] Cash Stewart: Yeah,
I think it, uh, I think
it definitely helped our bond together, we weren’t just oh, you know, like we’re family but we don’t really hang
out,
but
it was
more
like,
we actually liked each other and we liked
talking with
each
other
and
hanging
out,
it’s like,
you become closer as a group of people, not only as
family
but
also
as
best
friends.
[00:08:11] Tripp Stewart: And another
thing
I’d
add
to
that is
just having consistency in one part our life. I don’t know for all pastor families, but at least for us, as
a replant.
No week was
the
same,
usually.
every week brought something different. And just having that one thing to look forward to each week, that I knew would be there
every
week,
that brought,
some
things
stable.
Just
something
consistently
[00:08:38] JimBo Stewart: Yeah.
[00:08:38] Tripp Stewart: there.
[00:08:39] Audrea and Mags: I think
what
I
liked about it too is it felt like no matter what was going on at the church at that time, cause we
had some really amazing
times,
we
had some
really tough times, but I knew that I had the Lord and I knew that I had you guys and that really
was a blessing.
Yeah,
and for kids, like, you mean more to your parents than you’ll know until you kind
of
get older.
And so, like, whenever you get older, you think, oh, I remember that time. It was kind of rough, but I didn’t really understand it, but
I
knew
my
parents were
really
stressed out about
that. But what you don’t know is whenever on
those
special days
that
you have,
That’s what, like, that’s the time where they kind of forget about their worries, and they’re just like, I’m with
my
kids,
everything
is okay,
I
have
them.
So,
what I’m hearing you say too is like, it, it’s not just good for the kids, it’s also for the parents, just to enjoy each other,
and have that
moment
of
peace.
Yeah,
Yeah,
[00:09:40] JimBo Stewart: Yeah, get
home,
hang out,
hang
out
with
your
family,
make them some of
your best
friends.
I can remember many days
that were
really
stressful that I couldn’t wait to just get home and just hang out with some friends.
My family and my people And my kids what advice would you guys have for? the kids of
replant
pastors?
[00:10:02] Audrea and Mags: I’d say,
some
advice
for
the kids. You
are an example for
the
other
people in
the church. Now, does
that
mean
you have
to
be
perfect?
Absolutely
not.
But,
it
does mean, whatever you do, just know there’s
at least
one
pair
of eyes
that might
be
on you at the moment.
So,
is this what you want someone
new
to
the church
to
be
like,
Oh.
Like,
mom
with
theater says,
the play that you’re in right
now
is
the
audition
for
the next
show.
So, you’re
kind of showing them
what
it
would
be
like, so,
[00:10:46] Cash Stewart: And,
other kids, and even their parents are watching you to see if you would be respectable friends. And not
only
that,
but like,
actually
nice friends. But, You
don’t need to
stress about it. Because
we are not
made
to
be perfect.
Well,
we
are,
but then
we broke
that because of
sin.
So,
the
best
thing
you
can
do
is
just
believe in God and trust your parents and know that what they’re teaching you is probably
for the best.
They’re
not just
telling
you
to,
you know, go
to
church
and
dress
up
Nice.
Because
they want to and
they wanna annoy you
and stuff
the
other
people
in the
church
are
looking at you
but yeah. know. how the church might be
[00:11:34] Audrea and Mags: Yeah.
[00:11:35] Tripp Stewart: I
would say you also got to be a helping
hand.
I know there were many days when I, I remember when our janitor,
Well,
we
didn’t
[00:11:45] Cash Stewart: have
a
janitor
for
[00:11:46] Audrea and Mags: while.
yeah.
yeah, we were the
[00:11:48] Tripp Stewart: janitor. We became, yeah,
we
became
the
[00:11:51] Cash Stewart: janitor.
Yeah.
[00:11:53] Tripp Stewart: And
at
the time,
I
didn’t
enjoy it, but now I see why
it
was
necessary.
and then
also
it’s
helped me,
it’s
helped
me now.
once I’ve grown past this, like I know how
to
clean up different areas and how to push a broom and a vacuum and
just
do
the
stuff no one else wants to do. And that’s
helped
me
a
lot
in
my
life.
It’s
put
me
in
some
great
[00:12:20] JimBo Stewart: You’re telling me you didn’t love spending
Sunday
afternoons
[00:12:24] Cash Stewart: toilets
and sweeping and
[00:12:25] Audrea and Mags: bathroom? No. it
was
not
my
favorite
thing,
no.
I’d say
the worst
was the
toddler
bathrooms.
They were, like, there were some times where I couldn’t even
look
in
there.
Like,
I
took one glance
and walked away,
I
was
like,
someone
else
is cleaning
this.
[00:12:41] Tripp Stewart: I
was
[00:12:41] Cash Stewart: like,
[00:12:42] JimBo Stewart: no
[00:12:42] Cash Stewart: thank
you.
Yeah,
there’s some stories that we’re just not going to tell because
[00:12:46] JimBo Stewart: Alright,
we
don’t
have
to
tell those,
but I would love
to hear, like,
what was the most challenging
or
least
favorite
memory?
Like,
what
do
you
look
back
on,
and like,
that
was
the
worst?
[00:12:57] Cash Stewart: so I
probably
have
two things.
Alright,
One
of
them
was
about
a
toilet.
Ahem. So, whenever we were, like, about to leave the church,
I
remember in the preschool
bathroom,
the
toilet
was
filled
up
to
the
brim
with
cockroaches.
[00:13:15] JimBo Stewart: What?
[00:13:17] Audrea and Mags: Okay,
let
me
back
this up
there because
it
was
a wonderful
church.
It
was
It was
post
COVID.
Apparently
nobody had cleaned the bathroom the last Sunday that we were there and
then we go
back in post covid and so we were I had gone into the toddler bathroom right as we’re about
to
reopen
and I
was like,
oh
no
And
it
was
a
nightmare.
it
was
a horror
show Yeah,
so
I,
Yeah,
I
know.
I
I believe,
I cleaned
[00:13:43] Tripp Stewart: that
bathroom
that
[00:13:43] Audrea and Mags: time.
You did.
I took one
for
the team.
that was The COVID
cockroaches
I
took
that
for
I
feel like
I
should
get a
you
know
a
star on
[00:13:52] Cash Stewart: Hey, you get a gold medal. Yeah, you get one
for sure.
And my
other story was whenever I,
because
of
my
September
birthday, I’ve
always
been
a grade
behind.
So, whenever I was the age to move up to the first grade, and I was like, Yes, I get to go be up
with
the
regular kids,
I
get
to
be
in
the
hideout, which was our, uh, kids group. my mom said, No, you’re not old enough yet.
And
I
was
like,
What?
[00:14:16] JimBo Stewart: Oh.
[00:14:17] Cash Stewart: I
bawled
my eyes
out in kindergarten.
[00:14:19] Audrea and Mags: out in kindergarten.
Oh no,
that
was
actually
really fun.
[00:14:28] Cash Stewart: Yeah,
that
[00:14:29] JimBo Stewart: was.
Yeah,
so he was
[00:14:31] Audrea and Mags: at the
church.
I
was
the
only kid who didn’t go to Disney World,
for my
[00:14:37] Cash Stewart: who didn’t go to Disney World for my
[00:14:39] JimBo Stewart: Yeah, I was the only
kid who didn’t go to Disney my birthday.
That was
[00:14:47] Tripp Stewart: Well, no
one
really
put this pressure on
me, but
I’ve put pressure on myself to be perfect because
I
felt
like I
was
the
example.
And,
I think
the time
that
I
realized
the
most
I
was
not perfect
was
when
I
broke the
pre school window
[00:15:06] Audrea and Mags: Yes, yes.
[00:15:07] Cash Stewart: And
I
[00:15:08] Tripp Stewart: pick
up
a yo
yo
again
for
another
[00:15:10] Audrea and Mags: So,
explain that first, so the viewers listening may not understand.
[00:15:17] Tripp Stewart: So we were
all
given prizes in the hideout in the kids group and My prize was a yo yo and I was
so excited
because I’d earned that yo yo And
then
I
was trying
to
do
the
thing
where
you
throw
it
down
and
it
comes
back
up.
Yeah.
And then
I,
[00:15:32] Cash Stewart: yo
[00:15:33] Tripp Stewart: but
I was
standing
right
behind
the window where
the
preschool
was at
and all the
well, right in front
of the
window
where
the
preschoolers
were at
and
all
the
preschoolers were
behind
me too.
And so I threw it down and I pulled it up and it didn’t do the trick and it just swung
behind
me
and
smashed the
window.
[00:15:50] Cash Stewart: Yep.
[00:15:51] JimBo Stewart: Yeah.
[00:15:51] Audrea and Mags: so Ken, to be fair to you and your sweet little probably 8 year old self at the time, that was a mom moment that I did not handle well.
And I will just go ahead and publicly apologize to you for that. it was, that glass, I mean it was probably older than Jesus
at that
point. So, oops. It probably had
it coming,
honestly.
And I flipped out because I was worried, I think, what other people would say.
And
so I
probably overreacted
in
that moment.
So
sorry,
bud.
I remember
Tripp saving
up
cause he
had
to
pay for
it
by
himself.
And I
remember
him being
like,
like
after
I
was like,
Hey
Tripp, I need to
borrow some money.
He was
like, no,
I’m broke.
[00:16:31] JimBo Stewart: borrow
[00:16:33] Tripp Stewart: whole window. No, they
did not
[00:16:34] Audrea and Mags: No.
[00:16:35] Tripp Stewart: window. You did have to help, you had
to help
pay
some,
but
it
wasn’t much.
I mainly did, I mainly did community service hours.
At that time we were rebuilding the stage. So I was just there to help rebuild the stage. I think I did like about 10 hours and
that was over
a
couple, about
a
month.
they
handled
it well, but they also did
punish me for It
[00:16:54] JimBo Stewart: well, but they
also did
punish me for it.
[00:17:09] Tripp Stewart: for me, it was actually growing up with the church. So since I was one of
the first,
probably
one
of
the
first
members there,
I knew the entire story of the church and what everything looked like
beforehand
and
afterwards.
And
just growing up with the church and seeing how it had
grown
over
the
years was
probably one
of
my
favorite parts.
[00:17:32] Cash Stewart: So
personally,
my
favorite part
was
whenever
I
was
in
the hideout, third
or fourth
grade,
playing
hide and seek.
That
was
the
best part
because
I
knew
all
the best
hiding
spots
because I was
the pastor’s
kid.
So,
we, uh, always played hide
and seek
right, uh, either before
or after
church, I can’t remember, while the parents were talking or something. And we we had to stay in the, uh, first building with
the
sanctuary.
We
had to
go
and
hide
all around.
And
there
was one
place
that
was right behind the baptistry stairs.
That was the
best.
[00:18:06] Audrea and Mags: I remember
that
as well,
and it
was really
fun,
And I remember, like, watching everything, like, grow as well, as Tripp.
And
I
remember, like,
from
it
just
being
us,
like,
we
were the
only
kids.
To
becoming
like
filled with
people
and like Things like that
[00:18:28] JimBo Stewart: Alright,
Audrey,
what
about
you?
What would
be
your
favorite
memories?
[00:18:32] Audrea and Mags: think honestly,
just
how
much
we
grew
together
as
a family.
being
at
a
replant
is
hard.
It’s
hard work.
and
I really appreciated,
that
you
came home.
there
was
a
lot
of times
where,
I mean
the
work
is
just
never
done.
So
if
you’re
waiting
for it
to
get
done,
it’s not
going
to, So
you have
to
stop.
Yeah. The
fact
that
we came out of
our
replant
loving
Jesus,
and
loving
each
other as much as
we
did,
I
think
is a
true
testimony.
not
to
say
that
it
was easy.
Um,
and
not
to
say there wasn’t a
ton of hard work,
but
I really appreciated,
family times of us playing board
games
together or
Wednesday
night
movie nights or Monday morning breakfasts.
and then
we got
to see
some
just
really
cool movements
of
the
Lord.
We walked into, a
church situation where there’s about 40 people, mostly senior adults. And
our
kids
were
the
children’s
ministry
and, just
Easter Sunday mornings, just
seeing
a
room
full
of
people
or,
seeing,
a
kids choir, several VBSs. those
are just
beautiful moments and, and not just having
those
moments,
but
having
them
together
and
just
watching
our
kids
grow
alongside
of
It
was pretty
great.
[00:19:48] Cash Stewart: So
I have
a question
for Dad.
[00:19:50] JimBo Stewart: Oh, okay.
[00:19:51] Cash Stewart: So what was the
best
part
and
the
worst
part
about
having
kids
in
a
replant?
[00:19:57] JimBo Stewart: Hmm.
I
would say
the
best
part
was
getting
to
do
ministry with you guys.
being
in
a smaller church,
You guys were the janitors. the cleanup crew for, block
parties and
And
so
we
got
to do
all
sorts
of things
together.
And
that
was
a
ton
of fun
doing
it with
you,
having
you
be
a
part of
it.
[00:20:23] Audrea and Mags: What was
the
worst part?
[00:20:25] JimBo Stewart: The
worst part.
there
weren’t
many
moments, but there
were
a
couple
of
moments
[00:20:31] JimBo Stewart: some church members
decided to be very
ugly to
me
in front of
you.
there
were
several
moments where
people vented
frustrations and
things
like
that,
that
you
weren’t
around,
and
that, I’m
fine
with
that.
But
there were
a
few
moments
where
you
were right
there.
And
I
don’t know
if
y’all
remember
those
or not,
but
I
just
remember thinking,
man,
I,
really
didn’t want
you
guys
to
have to
see that part
of
ministry,
of
people
being
rude
to
dad.
But,
you
guys
always
handled
it
really
well.
They
[00:21:04] Audrea and Mags: I remember like, not what they said, but I remember like standing next to you, talking to you, and then like someone walking up and like saying something like in the nicest
way,
like
not
like
in the nicest way possible, but
in
the
nicest tone,
like
the
meanest
things.
And
I
just
remember
being
like,
that
was
rude.
Do
either
of
you
boys
remember
anything
like that or
Did
not even hit your radar.
[00:21:28] Tripp Stewart: Um, I think I remember that it
happened.
But,
nothing
much.
More
just,
I
knew
they
were
probably wrong.
[00:21:38] JimBo Stewart: Well,
[00:21:44] Audrea and Mags: be truthful, in
my head
I
was
like,
Anything
dad says
is
correct. And
[00:21:49] Cash Stewart: Yeah.
[00:21:51] Audrea and Mags: Well, just
to brag on you
three,
You guys
were
rock stars
during that
whole
time.
you
really were.
Just
bright moments,
and
I
hate at
any
point you
ever
felt
any
need
to
feel
perfect.
one
thing
I
loved
about
each
of
you
is like
you
were all just
a hundred percent yourself
all the
time. And
that’s
what
I
would
say
to
a
pastor’s
wife
or I’m
actually
a
pastor’s
kid. Myself
is
just
echoing
with, they say,
you’re
not
going
to
be
perfect.
And
sure,
people
are going
to
come in
and
think,
like,
Ooh,
what
is
this
church going
to
be
like?
But,
Pastor Wife, Pastor
Kid, just
be
yourself.
Because
you’re
the one that God called to that church.
Okay?
and you’re
going to
learn so much.
And
of
course
you
want to grow
in
the
Lord
and change.
But,
you
don’t know
who’s
walking
into that
church
and
they
need
Jesus,
but
they
also need
you.
So,
just
be
the
you
that
God’s
called
you to
be.
I have a
question
for
mom.
[00:22:46] JimBo Stewart: Okay.
[00:22:47] Audrea and Mags: What
is
the
most
difficult
or
like
the
hardest part
about
being
a pastor’s
wife?
Getting ready
on
Sunday
mornings. I
lose my
ever
loving
mind because,
you
know,
you,
sometimes
you
can feel like
a single mom.
[00:23:03] JimBo Stewart: especially
on
Sunday
[00:23:04] Audrea and Mags: mornings. Especially. you
are
a
single
mom on
Sunday mornings. Yeah, and again, you
guys were
2.
I,
Magnolia,
you ran
out
of
the
house
one
morning.
and I
didn’t
even
know
you were gone.
Like,
it was
real
bad.
I believe
whenever
I was
little, now
this
is an embarrassing
story of whenever
I
was
like 2. But
like, whenever
I
was
2 years
old, I, throw off my diaper and run around the neighborhood and knock on people’s doors and then run into their house.
And
it was Trim’s job
to
grab
me
from
people’s house cause mom was
trying
to
get
Cash
ready
for church.
Cause he didn’t you
have
And so mom was trying to get cash ready
and
Tripp
was chasing me
around
the neighborhood
and
I was running
in
people’s
house naked.
Mom
was
freaked out.
Tripp
was
freaked out.
Cash was mad. All of the things. Yeah. So yeah.
So trying to get all three of you ready, and ready to go on Sunday morning and then
get
there, Still
feeling
holy.
that’s
when
we
started the
Do You
See
the
Church
game.
[00:24:02] Cash Stewart: because, yeah. That
[00:24:05] Audrea and Mags: That was
my
favorite
game. Okay.
That’s
why I got
ready.
Yeah. so
instead
of me
yelling
at you and fussing
the
whole way
to church, I played this game where
We
said,
do
you
see
the church?
as soon
as we
drove up and
the
first
person
who
could
see
the church
would
win.
and
then
we
also started
the whole
where
have
you
seen
God
at work?
because
I figured
talking about Jesus
was a lot
better than,
Me stressed
out. So
yeah.
But
yeah, getting
getting you guys
ready
was
tough
[00:24:32] Cash Stewart: Hopefully
now
it’s
a
little easier.
[00:24:34] Audrea and Mags: Yeah.
Maybe I’m
not
running
through
the
neighborhood
anymore.
[00:24:38] JimBo Stewart: Alright,
so
we’re just about
out
of time,
but
I
wanted
to
hit
one more thing.
When
we talked
about
doing
this podcast
trip,
you
brought
something
up
When you were talking about don’t raise your kids to be pastor’s kids,
but
just
raising them to be
kids.
You
talked
about
how
the
core
values
that
we’ve
done
as
a family
have
been
really
helpful for
you.
[00:24:58] Tripp Stewart: for
me using
the
core values,
it
was
kind
of the
building block
for,
y’all
raising us.
So, whenever I wasn’t sure what to do, I would look back at our core values, which are respect, integrity,
self control,
and
joyfulness.
And look back like, am
I doing
those
things?
Am
I
following
what
I
was taught
to
do?
[00:25:24] Audrea and Mags: And with
the core values, respect,
self
control, and joyfulness,
No
one
can say,
well, you didn’t tell me
I
can’t
do
blah,
blah,
blah,
because
it’s
not following respect.
It’s not
following
self control.
Or maybe
it’s
not
following joyfulness.
Like,
all
these
things.
[00:25:39] JimBo Stewart: things. Yeah,
[00:25:40] Audrea and Mags: Yeah, there
aren’t
any
loopholes,
which does annoy me,
But, you know,
Magnolia is our loophole queen.
[00:25:46] JimBo Stewart: Definitely is our loophole queen. Yeah. Alright, it
Alright, so Any
final
thoughts you want to share
on the podcast
before
we
sign
off?
[00:25:56] Audrea and Mags: again
with
the
respect
and charity, self
control,
and
joyfulness
thing.
That I’d say is definitely important to any of the new parents like See if you can get that in there Like I had to memorize it and anytime
I got
in
trouble,
which i’m the one that
gets in
the most
trouble I’d have to go respect integrity self control
and
joyfulness.
So
what I hear
you’re saying is
you
want
to make sure
that
new
parents
maybe
create core
values
for
their
family.
[00:26:23] Cash Stewart: Yeah,
they
don’t
even
have
to
be
like the exact
same,
but
find
a
foundation
that
is
God
loving
and
honestly
just
what
you
think
a
family
should
emulate.
[00:26:35] Audrea and Mags: Yes.
[00:26:36] Tripp Stewart: And
also,
you
don’t have
to
be perfect.
Raise
your kids
to be
kids
you
want
them
to
be.
Don’t
raise them to be
the
pastor’s
kid.
Raise
them
to
be
your kids.
[00:26:50] Audrea and Mags: As
I
was
saying
earlier, raise them
to be
someone
you
want
to hang
out
with.
Not
someone
you
just
want
to
take care of.
[00:26:57] Cash Stewart: Yeah. Have fun with your kids.
Spend time with them Cause they do like you and they want to spend time with you
So.
[00:27:04] JimBo Stewart: It’s a good word
Any last words mama
[00:27:07] Audrea: I just love
you guys.
[00:27:08] JimBo Stewart: guys.
[00:27:09] Mags: Love you.
[00:27:09] Tripp Stewart: Love you too.
[00:27:11] Mags: Hi!