EP 188 DISCIPLESHIP IN A REPLANT w/ KYLE BUEERMANN
Welcome back Bootcampers! The guys were in the Big D (Dallas TX) for an event and had the opportunity to visit with the one and only, Dr. Kyle Bueermann from some other podcast. He dropped by to discuss some key thoughts from his book, And They Devoted, on discipleship. Listen in and be encouraged.
Here are some key points in the podcast
- Discipleship is often assumed in the church-you have to develop intentionality and strategy
- Focus on the basics: Scripture, Fellowship, Worship, Prayer, Evangelism
- Start by discipling a few others, then releasing them to disciple others
- Every discipleship process has to be reproducible-it can’t depend upon you
- This is not a fast process it takes time (think years)
Keep listening for more great insights from Kyle and comments form Jimbo and Bob.
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JimBo Stewart: [00:00:00] Here we are. Back at it again. Bob, I hope you’re ready for the next episode on not another bootcamp podcast.
Bob Bickford: I see what you did there, Jimbo.
JimBo Stewart: Yeah, we’re excited. We’ve got a fun guest and a fun friend, Dr. Kyle Bierman is with us in the house today.
Kyle Bueermann: Hey, it’s great to be back on the bootcamp. It’s been a bit. That’s a lot of bees. It’s been been a
Bob Bickford: while. Well,
I am
Kyle Bueermann: Bob
Bickford. Bob
JimBo Stewart: Bickford. Bob Bickford. Bob Bickford. Beautiful. Uh, what is it? The beautiful bob.
Beautiful
Bob Bickford: Below average butterfly singing kisses.
Bob
Bickford.
JimBo Stewart: butter butterfly singing kisses, butterfly kisses. Singing.
Yeah. I, There
you sorry. Yeah, we still gotta get that on the podcast at some point.
Just a, just an audio snippet of you singing a little bit of
Bob Bickford: there’s no audio, there is no video. There’s only this story that I’ve
shared
with
you.
JimBo Stewart: Hi. I mean, I, at some point I’m gonna need more, but we’ll take what we can get. Hey, if you hear a little rattle,
that’s
our PTOs [00:01:00] cups with our waters so that we could stay quenched while we have this podcast with you.
Cuz when you’re in Texas, you have to
stop at
Bob Bickford: Suda. Yeah, we need to break that down for the listeners. So, the listeners that
are
not. In the great state of Texas or have not been through the Great Nation
of
Texas.
There are a
few restaurants that you should check out, but one definitely
is
PTOs. Yeah,
Their fajitas
are amazing. They marinate their steak in Dr. Pepper
JimBo Stewart: and you know, and if you’ve never heard that the first time you hear that
mm-hmm.
There’s a moment where you go, I wonder if that’s as good as that sounds. Yes, it is. It’s better.
Yes. Yes.
Kyle Bueermann: Yes.
Bob Bickford: And
the butter sauce that you get at PTOs
is
amazing
too.
JimBo Stewart: I mean, pretty much anything marinated in Dr. Pepper and dipped in butter is gonna
Bob Bickford: be
good.
Right? So, well, Jimbo, I’m gonna challenge you on that. Beets,
I
do not
like beets marinated in Dr. Pepper and dipped in
butter.
I’m
not
going
for
that
challenge
accepted.
JimBo Stewart: [00:02:00] I’m
gonna figure
out how to
make it
Kyle Bueermann: that
that needs to happen
JimBo Stewart: in
an episode.
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah,
where you you get beats marinated in Dr.
Pepper and
dip
em in butter and just record
the
experience.
in
Bob Bickford: Yeah, it’d be like your hot chip challenge.
JimBo Stewart: On
another,
another not
Kyle Bueermann: I’m
out. I’ve
retired from
that.
All right.
I had a, had a couple of bad
experiences
and
I’m
out
on
the
one chip challenge.
JimBo Stewart: well, hey, if you don’t know who, Kyle Bierman is.
Kyle, introduce yourself a little bit. Tell us just a little bit
about
you.
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah, so, I’m the rural guy for, for the, replant team. And married to Michelle. We have two
kids,
Noah
and
Hailey. And,
JimBo Stewart: Hold on. Is that your official title?
The
Rural
Kyle Bueermann: I,
so
I
think my, official title is
Rural
Specialist for
Replant
Strategies.
JimBo Stewart: Oh,
okay. Yeah,
I
like
that. Yeah.
Well,
I
didn’t
know
that
was
his
father. That was,
Kyle Bueermann: you’re
his boss’s. That’s based on the, uh, the job description that I got from you.
I,
I believe.
Oh,
alright. Don’t have to
look
that
up
But yeah, it’s, so,
it’s
easier
just
to
say
JimBo Stewart: wait, you got
Kyle Bueermann: real guy what you got job description [00:03:00]
with,
roles and responsibilities and everything,
man.
It’s
bullet points. yeah. So I’m married to Michelle. We have, two kids, Noah Haley, and we live in Lubbock, Texas. Where there is not a papa
CTOs,
believe
it
or
not. Yeah.
So
Bob Bickford: there’s however,
Kyle Bueermann: a
twisted
root,
Oh,
oh,
Bob Bickford: burger place. But,
JimBo Stewart: Yeah. uh,
this
is
not
a
food
episode,
so
we should, every, every episode is at least a
little bit
Kyle Bueermann: of
food
episode.
But you’re not Jo if, if you are anywhere near a twisted root,
you
need
to
give it
a shot.
JimBo Stewart: Yeah. So a couple good recommendations there for you, Papas twisted root. Hey, so not only do you work for the replant team, not only are you married and have children, but you also have, another podcast that you’re on.
Yeah. And you have another podcast of which you are like, what? The executive producer something?
Is that the title? If it were, if
we’re just
making up
titles
Kyle Bueermann: today. Yeah.
You
sure. The, the executive producer, which
means
I
pushed the record
button.
JimBo Stewart: Yeah. All right. So
tell us about
those
other
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah, so the, the first podcast is, not another Baptist podcast [00:04:00] with, Matt Hensley that
we’ve
hosted for
the last
five
and
a
half
years
I
think it
is now.
Bob Bickford: Wow.
JimBo Stewart: how
many episodes
is
that?
Kyle Bueermann: we’re into the, we’re not quite at 200 yet. I think I saw or we’re not quite at 300. I think
I
saw
2
89 or something like that.
Yeah.
Is
where we are. and then, yeah, I’m the executive producer on the new, revitalize and replant with Mark Clifton, with special guest, uh, mark Hallick and hosted
by
Dan Hurst. And, and I actually
in
an episode
that’ll come
up.
sometime
in May or
June,
like
I
actually
get
to make an
appearance on
the Ooh,
for, for, one line, it’s fam Mark asked
me
a
question
and
had
me step
onto
the
mic.
JimBo Stewart: but now we’ve gotta see
if
it makes it through
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah, that’s
right.
So yeah. I, I mean, I can make up whatever
title
I’m, I’m
the
guy
who
pushes
the
record
button
on
that
Bob Bickford: one. Well,
he does, he,
you
do a little
more
than that.
You
wrangle the
talents and
you Coordinate,
Kyle Bueermann: co
getting everybody
together. You help
content. Yeah.
And then, have
to,
you know,
make them notes of, you
know,
mark
Kaft, we gotta take that out
[00:05:00] here.
And
JimBo Stewart: Oh, that’s a lot of fun. Yeah,
that’s good. All right. So a couple other things to
know about
Kyle
though
is he is
also
an author.
Right. So we’ve got a few things out there with your name.
Yeah.
That’s the
author
line.
Talk
to
us
about those
real quick.
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah. So the, the first book, uh, was one that I co-wrote with Matt Hensley called, replanting
Rural Churches.
And that book
is
all of
about 60 pages. so
we, we,
set
out to write a book
for
people who don’t
like
to read.
And,
it’s
done
pretty well actually.
So I guess that
that
hit a niche.
and then
JimBo Stewart: do you have anybody go,
man,
I hated
reading
until
Kyle Bueermann: read that
Bob Bickford: one.
JimBo Stewart: and
Kyle Bueermann: No, but I mean, we have
had
some
books say, I
don’t like to
read books,
but I read
your book,
because Oh,
good.
We got, I got it in the
mail and I
realized,
JimBo Stewart: oh,
Kyle Bueermann: it’s
like a
pamphlet,
so I
can
read that.
That’s
JimBo Stewart: fine.
Kyle Bueermann: Um,
JimBo Stewart: and
Kyle Bueermann: then,
then the book we’re talking about today. I, uh, reworked my Doctor of Ministry project and turned that into a book called
They
Devoted Themselves
based
on Acts two. then Hensley and I wrote
a
Christmas devotional
[00:06:00] just
in 2020
cuz
we
weren’t
doing anything else with
our time.
So, hey,
let’s
just, let’s
put together a real
simple
Christmas
devotional.
Called
the
people
who
Walked
in
Darkness. yeah, I got a
Bob Bickford: And
there’s another
book called Not Another
Heresy.
Kyle Bueermann: Yes, there is. Could
you
Bob Bickford: explain
that book to
us?
Kyle Bueermann: that is,
you, you’re gonna pay about 20
bucks
for that, and you’re gonna
be sorely disappointed.
It’s a,
it’s a,
it’s
a
$20
paper weight is what it is.
So
it’s, um,
yeah, not another heresy,
a
comprehensive guide to.
Like
object
lessons about
the Trinity or something like that.
And that are
not
heretical and it’s eight Yes. That are not here. Non heretical object lessons
for
the Trinity
and
it’s
800 pages
and
Amazon
would not let
us just
do blank pages.
Okay.
So
every page
has
one sentence.
There
are none.
Period.
It’s 800
pages of that.
Wow.
It’s,
I mean, and it’s
the, the largest,
book
format
size
that
we could
get
on
Amazon.
Kindle
Direct. Okay.
Have you’ve sold
[00:07:00] some
Actually
we
have,
I
dunno how
or
what.
Disney
Bob Bickford: year? Is
that
it?
Kyle Bueermann: and, and Hensley. I remember when he put it up there, he made it like, as
cheap
as
possible for that
size
And
it came out
at like 17 or
$18. Oh no. Yeah. And I do have one on
my
shelf.
it looks really impressive. it’s just
a
fun novelty so.
You
know,
if
you
want
something
on your
shelf
that
looks
really good,
JimBo Stewart: yeah.
Or,
you
looks like a really big, thick book. And you,
you know,
what you do is you’d
be like, oh yeah,
this is the
book
I read
this
week.
Yeah,
that’s right. And you just show the
Kyle Bueermann: of it
Bob Bickford: your life. yeah, this
JimBo Stewart: is the kind of book I
read
in a
week.
Bob Bickford: It’s
just
a
little
bit
longer
than Replant Roadmap by
Kyle Bueermann: Markel. Yeah,
JimBo Stewart: that’s
right.
Yeah,
that’s
right.
Just
a bit.
That’s close.
All right, well
give us
an
overview of they devoted themselves.
Actually, you know
what?
Because I know how hard you worked on a doctoral doctoral degree. Like why that, why,
why was
that
the
subject
of
your doctoral
research?
Kyle Bueermann: So
I came across
this
[00:08:00] passage, acts 2 42
through 47,
back
when
I
was a
youth minister. I, I
was,
I
was
at a
new church,
this would’ve been like 2007.
So
I
was 23.
Came
into a new church
and and was kind of exploring what
to
do and
came
across
this
study.
And
this
is
gonna age myself here, Bob.
Bob Bickford: you’re
saying
that
to
the old
Kyle Bueermann: I know guy,
but
I came across
this study that
was
put
out
by
Simply
Youth
Ministry.
And
Doug Fields.
Yeah, Doug. All right. Yeah, and
it was called Church as
it should Be.
It
was
a
study
of
the book
of
Acts,
like
a six
week
kind of
overview
of the
book
of
Acts.
Bob Bickford: That
is
a
very youth
minister
Kyle Bueermann: title.
For
a book.
Yes. Yeah.
and so like I bought this package series, from Simply Youth Ministry, and
I think
it
was
the
second or third,
maybe the second,
lesson
in that,
in
that
series was on Acts 2 42 through 47. And so the context
of
that
is,
it’s
the passage that comes right after Pentecost,
right?
So
Pentecost Peter preaches,
3000
people
are saved.
And
then you [00:09:00] get this
passage
in
verses 42
through
47 that
just kind of
explain
what
the early church did,
how, how
they,
how
they
went about
their daily lives
as followers
of Christ. And so
in
2007, like
I was still
working
on
my master’s degree
And
I
just remember thinking, man, if, if
I ever.
Write a
book.
It
would
probably
be on this passage. Like, I, I
just
want
to
dive into this passage. Well, when I got
into
my
demonn and started
getting
closer to
my project,
it
dawned
on
me.
This
is
basically a book
that, that
I’m
gonna
have
to be working on,
and
can
I
take
the principles
from
that
passage
and
turn
that into a discipleship
project.
And,
uh, so
that’s the, that’s the direction that
I went with
it.
And
yeah.
you
know,
I had to
do all the
academic, had
to do like a teaching series at the
church,
and
so
I
was able to develop kind
of study guides based
off
of
that and
some
questions that
made
their
way into the end of each chapter
of
the book.
And then once I
was
done
with my dmn, I
had
all
this
research
that
I’d already put
together
and I said
I could
fairly
simply
take
this and
[00:10:00] de.
Aise.
JimBo Stewart: de
Bob Bickford: ized.
JimBo Stewart: de
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah.
JimBo Stewart: Dumb
it.
No,
that’s not de
Kyle Bueermann: I Marty,
I
a tiny restaurant called
Bob Bickford: De
JimBo Stewart: the,
Bob Bickford: Ice.
Kyle Bueermann: May,
may, may,
you know,
JimBo Stewart: take, take
Kyle Bueermann: like all the statistics, uh,
a
lot of
the statistics
and
stuff
that
you
have
to
have for a,
yeah.
For, For,
a,
an
academic
project.
Yeah.
And
just make it a
basic
book
on
discipleship.
And,
uh,
so
that’s
what
I did
and,
pretty, pretty
happy
with
the
way that
it
turned
out.
All in all,
Bob Bickford: you
know,
one
of the
things
we
realize
when we start
working
with declining
churches, all
three of
us have
been
part of that. As a
replant
team,
we’ll
go
and
consult a, dying church.
It
seems like
discipleship
is assumed.
Yeah.
it’s
mostly
absent.
Would you say that
is
true,
Kyle?
And
then
how
does what
what you
studied.
Challenge
churches
to
consider
engaging
in
discipleship
practices
and
patterns?
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah,
I,
I,
I
think you’re exactly right in that
[00:11:00] when,
when
you
say discipleship is this assumed, because what we saw for years and
years through, you know, growing what
I
saw
growing
up
in
children’s
ministry
and
RAs
and
youth
ministry,
you came
to faith
in Christ.
We’re baptized
and
then
it
was
almost
like, okay, here’s the slate of activities that we have.
you’re gonna
do these things on Sunday morning, you’re
gonna
be involved in a, in
a Sunday
school
class.
you’re
gonna be
be
involved in something on Wednesday
nights.
And through those things,
we
think you’re gonna grow in your
relationship
with
Christ.
Mm-hmm.
and so
it was, it was,
assumed, but
there wasn’t.
I
think
you’re
right
in that
there wasn’t
a,
like, real
strategy
to the
way
that
those things were done. and
I
mean, I
probably fell
into
that trap
when
I
was
a
youth
minister as well.
You
know, we,
you, you
get bogged down
in,
into
the weekly routine of
we
gotta
do
Sunday morning
routine, I gotta
do
Wednesday night routine.
and
and through
that
I
think
our,
our students will be discipled, And
that’s not the
way the early church went about it, right? I
mean, they,
they
act Acts 2
42
through
47
tells us that they
did certain [00:12:00] things
and, but it was an, it was a daily experience. It wasn’t just a,
they showed
up
at
the
temple for
an hour on Wednesday nights and checked that off their weekly
to-do
list. They, they
were
involved in
each other’s
lives.
It
was a
robust
discipleship experience,
That I
don’t
think
we’ve
replicated all
that
well
in
the
21st
century.
JimBo Stewart: Yeah, I, I’ve heard it said that we have reduced the great commission to the functional great commission of going to all the world make more worship attenders, baptizing ’em in the name of small groups and teaching
them to
volunteer.
A few times a month. And then that’s
ministry
and Yeah.
And then that’s okay. Now you’re a disciple. Right. If
you,
ultimately
what
we, what
we’re
communicating when we operate that
way is
you
are
an
effective disciple if you serve this organization Right. And keep its programs running. Yeah. Right. And, what
you’re proposing
is, is a much different,
Concept.
Yeah.
Of discipleship. [00:13:00] So talk to us about, especially for our primary audience, is smaller churches, in
need of replanting or in the process of replanting or in need of revitalization. what are the basics kind of, that we can glean out of this that are, are doable Because cultures
so
different than it was during the first century church.
Right? You, you know, you had a little bit more flexibility in your time and
less.
Things going on. And so, you know, you could do this a little more than you can now, at least as far as
easier.
So
what
are some
of
the
highlights
of
some
of the
concepts
that our listeners need to think
about,
in
applying
this
to
discipleship
in
their
churches?
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah.
so
I think the,
the
big
topics
that
you can pull out
of
Acts two are, are
the big
takeaways, right? So, so, so
Acts
2
42
through 47
just
starts
and it
says
they devoted themselves to,
and
then it
lists some things that
they
devoted themselves to, and
it, and
it goes through some
of
the ways
that
they devoted themselves to
these
things. And so, There
are six
kind
of
primary chapters in the books. They [00:14:00] devoted themselves to Christ.
That’s
the
first thing,
right?
If you’re
to
be a follower
of
Christ
is
to
be devoted to him.
Yeah.
And then these other things follow out, flow
out
of that.
Then
they devoted themselves
to
scripture,
to
fellowship, to prayer, to worship,
and
to evangelism.
I mean, if
you
go
back
in
SBC
history,
these are, were called
the five
functions of
the church,
right?
I mean
these mm-hmm.
I,
I didn’t
reinvent
these
concepts
at
all.
These
are basics, but
I think
there’s,
something to be
said for
revisiting
these
very basic
things.
Yeah. And, And,
how they’re played
out.
and, and I
think that’s a key too.
There are all kinds,
there’s
all
kinds
of discipleship material
out
there.
There are
all kinds of discipleship
strategies.
You
don’t have to overcomplicate
it.
Discipleship,
even
robust
discipleship
does not
have
to be complicated.
It
can be simple.
but
you
do
need to
think
through,
okay, what, what do we
want
a
follower of Christ
who spends 3,
5,
7, 9, 10 years at
our church?
What
do
we
want
them to look like [00:15:00] as
they
spend
time,
as
they
take
part
in
the programs that we
have?
What,
how, how
do we
want
their
faith to
be
shaped
because
they’re
a part
of
our
local
church?
Bob Bickford: So
Kyle, one
of
the
challenges of a
Norma
size church
is that the, the pastor who
has
a
heart for discipleship
and
wants to define what
a
disciple is like you’ve mentioned,
Who does
he
do that with? Does
he
just declare, here’s what
a
disciple looks like? Does he
preach through
a
series
of
scripture?
Does
he work with
lay leaders who are in, in charge, you know,
with
kids
areas and
students
and
adults
and senior adults and couples and
those
sorts
of
things.
How do,
how
do
you
develop
a
picture
of
what a
disciple
looks
like?
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah. So
I
think
it, it can take place in all of those things. I mean, you can start
the
process with
a
sermon series
that
explains
kind of, Hey, here’s
what
discipleship looks
like in the New
Testament. I
think where
especially smaller church pastors and, and that’s all I’ve ever experienced is [00:16:00] smaller church.
So
I,
I’m
saying this,
As
a criticism of of myself and, and,
and what
I did.
I
think
sometimes
we
can
get so busy
that we
will
say,
Hey,
I’m
gonna
start
with
the
sermon series
and
then I have some
other
things
that I
would like
to
build off of this.
But
you get so busy doing
the.
Just
week to week
ministry that
you
never move beyond
that
sermon series.
Mm-hmm.
And
so you’ve
kind
of
planted this
idea of, hey,
here’s, here’s
what a
disciple
looks like. We’re gonna take this a
little bit deeper. And then
you
never make
it
to the deeper.
So
you can start it with a
sermon series
and
plant that idea
in
some
people’s
heads,
but
it’s gotta go beyond that. And
so I think,
you know, for
me,
when,
when
I
was pastoring,
one of
the
things
that
I
think
I
did
well
was
pouring into.
some young men
in
like
one-on-one settings,
right?
So
beyond
just the
Sunday morning
gathering,
getting
guys
whether it
was breakfast or coffee in
the
afternoon or whenever
they
were
available
and
and walking
through
some of these
same
concepts,
because
[00:17:00] you’ve
gotta start somewhere. And so I would say, you know, you could use
a
sermon
series
to
launch into that
and say, Hey,
if
you
are interested in moving forward,
Talk
to
me
and,
let’s
begin going deeper. And then
you
develop,
I
ideally
you
develop
some
folks
who can
then turn
around
and
pour
into others
and can
pour
into others. And that’s,
if
you’re
familiar with, Robert Coleman and Master
Plan
of
Evangelism,
that’s
kind
of
the
pattern
that
he,
that,
that
he
talks
about Jesus developing
is mm-hmm.
Spending
time with people.
And
then
releasing them
to to pour into other people as well.
the
key
to any
discipleship process
is it’s
gotta
be
reproducible.
And
you
as
the pastor cannot be
the
only one that’s doing it.
It’s,
it’s never gonna grow.
If,
if that’s how you’re gonna become
the
person
that
everyone comes
to with
their,
with
all
their stuff.
You’ve
gotta hand
that disciple making off
and
that
takes
a long
time.
I
mean,
you’re talking a year’s long process mm-hmm.
To
develop that [00:18:00] culture in
a church.
But
that’s
where, you
know,
as
we
talk, preach, pray,
love,
and stay,
that’s
where
that stay peace really
comes
into
play.
Where
you can
develop
this
discipleship pipeline
that
can,
that
can reproduce
itself
in the life of
your
church.
JimBo Stewart: I love
the emphasis on
pouring into
young guys like you talked about.
Cause that was been my experience as well, and. You
know, mark Clifton talks about that in reclaiming glory, the kind of secret sauce of pouring into
young
guys
like that.
And
I have
found, even in this role at NAM and with the association, sometimes I will talk to guys who are bivocational. They’re working 50 hours
a week in
their non-church vocation.
and so their time.
To
give
to
this church that they’re pastoring is so unbelievably
limited that, they really only have the scope to choose a couple of things, right? and for the most part, it’s kind of like, preach, pray, love,
stay. That’s the
list.
That’s,
Bob Bickford: that’s
JimBo Stewart: they
can
preach, they
[00:19:00] can pray
they can love everybody,
Kyle Bueermann: sick,
Yeah.
JimBo Stewart: love.
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah.
I
mean
JimBo Stewart: there’s,
they
don’t
have
time
for
much.
And
so
one
of
the things
I’ve
always
encouraged ’em
to always
say,
look,
don’t.
The
last
thing
you
need to
do
in
that
position
is
go
read
20
books on church
revitalization
and
try
to
apply
all those
strategies.
Yep.
You
don’t have the
time.
What
you can
do.
Pick
a couple
guys.
Yep. Start
discipling them.
Teach
them how to disciple somebody.
As
a matter of fact,
if
all you
did
was
preach,
visit
the
sick,
pray for your
people
and
disciple a couple guys. if you got the time, if you’ve got the runway that
could lead.
Yeah.
To
a
much healthier church
if
they’ll start discipling other
people.
Kyle Bueermann: well, and in reality, I mean, so, so you have two lanes primarily,
right?
if
if
that’s
you
and,
and you’re a
bivocational
guy who’s
working a full-time
job,
you
preach
and
spend time with
people,
they,
they’re your two lanes.
Yeah,
That’s good. And
part
of that is,
I
mean,
you, ideally, you can develop some leaders who could go make
hospital
visits so
that
you’re
not
the
point person for all of those as well. [00:20:00]
But
again,
that takes.
Leadership
development is really
just
discipleship.
I
mean,
if, if,
we’re being honest, right? Sure. You,
if
you
wanna develop
leaders,
you start by
discipling
them
and
then
you
hand off
responsibilities
to them.
And
so preach
and
develop
people,
develop disciples,
pour
into people,
and,
and,
they’re
your
two
lanes.
And
you
know, if you’re a full-time guy,
spend
your time with your people when they
can
spend
time with you.
You,
so
when I was in an Air Force community
in the, the,
last
church I pastored
in
in
Alamogordo,
it
was
a,
there
was an Air Force base right
there.
I
mean,
I would
meet guys for
breakfast at 4:00 AM
because
they
said, that’s when I get off work.
That’s
when I
can meet,
okay,
then
let’s
meet. Then
I, I, don’t, I
don’t wanna make
you adapt
to
my schedule.
I’ll,
you
know,
and
cuz I can
say,
Hey,
I spent an hour and a
half with this
guy.
And
I’m going back
to bed.
I’ll see
you
at
the office
about 10
o’clock
in the
morning.
Um, right.
You just,
if
you have
the
freedom
to
do
that, great.
If
not,
[00:21:00] figure out a way
to spend
some time
developing,
and
I
would say
develop
young men, because
if, as
you develop young men,
you’re
gonna develop
fathers
husbands
who
are pouring
into
their families, and I
think your
your church will reap
the Benefits Of
that,
Bob Bickford: one of
the things
that Southern Baptist
did
for
years
and
years is produce
curriculum
through
lifeway
and,
having come
to Christ in
my
middle
school
years,
and
then also working as a, a
student
intern.
When,
when
a
student would make
a
decision
for
Christ,
we would get
them,
uh, something
called
the
survival
kit.
Kyle Bueermann: Oh
yeah.
Right.
It was
just
Ralph neighbor.
Yeah. This a
little document
Bob Bickford: that they worked
through
it. yeah,
Yeah, yeah, You released that 2019. Yeah,
they So
the, the question
that I
have, and
this
is,
this
is one
I’m asked often and
I was
asked,
this question
at
a
conference the other day.
what
book do
you recommend on discipleship? Cause
I
was
making
the
point
that
there are
two areas. If, if
you
can
focus
on two areas,
it
will
help a
church renew.
these two areas are vital to that.
One
is discipleship
and
a defined discipleship development
process
or pipeline or
pathway.
And the
second
is
[00:22:00] evangelism,
which is
really
part
of
discipleship,
but
mm-hmm.
but
but that
combo specifically
breaking what
you’re
saying is
if
we
could make
disciples
JimBo Stewart: that
make
disciples,
Bob Bickford: that’s
exactly
what
I’m
saying.
Thank you,
Jimbo. But the guy
asked
me,
he
goes,
What
book do you recommend,
right? Like
there’s one
book
or
there’s a couple
books,
so
mm-hmm.
Kyle,
you, when you mentioned,
cuz we’ve, we’ve
said get
some guys and
disciple them.
Can
we get
granular
on
that? What
does that
mean?
What
does
that look like? Are we taking ’em through survival kits?
Are
we doing
spiritual disciplines
of
Godly
Man
by
Ark Hughes? Are
we
doing spiritual disciplines for life,
like
by
Don
Whitney?
Kyle Bueermann: What
are we doing?
I, I’m gonna
throw out
Tom
Rainer’s favorite
response
here.
Do
you
know
what
that
is?
It
depends. It
it
depends.
It
depends.
Yeah.
it
depends on
your
context.
I
mean,
For, it depends on
honestly, the
guys that you’re working with.
Some
guys
will do
really well
working
through curriculum,
working
through books.
I
honestly like
some
of
the best
times
that
I’ve
ever had, we
just
sat down with
a guy,
a
couple
of
guys
open
up
the Bible
and
had [00:23:00] kind
of a
rubric
of questions
that
we
would
ask
on
a passage.
Yes.
Mm-hmm.
And, and
again, this
goes
back
to what
I
said earlier, you do not have to overcomplicate this.
Yeah.
Um,
because
if.
Uh,
so our church just came through the seven realities
of
experiencing God. We, we just
did that. even
that
scaled
down
version
is still
pretty robust. I
mean, there’s five days of homework.
the, there’s some guys that, that would not work with, right? And so if you say, Hey, you know, we’re
gonna
meet
for
an
hour and then
here’s
30 minutes of
homework
I
want
you
to do for
the next five
days,
that,
that’s not gonna happen.
But
if
you
just
said,
Hey, bring
your Bible,
let’s
get together.
For
breakfast.
For coffee,
let’s
sit down and we’re gonna go through
this
passage
in Mark’s gospel,
and
then
we’re
gonna ask
these
simple questions.
What
does this say about God?
What
does
this
say about man?
Is
there
a
sin
to confess?
Is
there a promise to
claim?
Is
there an example to follow?
Or
is
there
a
command
to obey?
Mm-hmm.
Let’s
just, let’s
just walk through those
questions
on
every
passage.
And what you do
in
addition to
that, is
you
give
your guys
a framework,
uh,
a hermeneutic
[00:24:00] for understanding
the
the Bible,
right?
And
then
they begin
to take
that,
take,
take
the Bible, and begin
to understand how to apply it to their lives.
And
you
don’t have
to complicate
it.
There’s
not
homework.
It’s,
let’s
get
together.
We’re
gonna
open up
the Bible
and
see
what
God says.
So
what,
what do you
use? I mean,
if
you
got
a
Bible,
you’ve
got what
you need.
It
worked for a
long
time before lifeway or any
publishing
house
existed.
And that’s not a knock
on any of
the, on any
of
the
material. There’s
wonderful discipleship material
out
there.
I
just,
I
think
we’ve relied
on,
we’ve relied on discipleship
material
to
make
disciples
when
it was never meant
to
do that. It was
the, the,
Bible
is
the
thing
that
makes disciples.
of
Bob Bickford: of Christ.
Right.
I love
that. And I think that’s
so
important for
us
to
understand specifically
for
the
normative
size
church
and
for
certain
populations that
are
gonna struggle with, you know, 12 week studies Yeah. Of chapters that are
20
pages long.
Right.
You
know, 30,
30
chapters long
and then, and so,
per chapter. So,
[00:25:00] yeah. I
mean, you think this
is great. So I, if, if
a
guy,
and here’s,
a, here’s
a hard question too, Kyle,
cause
I we
find
this
a
lot
too.
What
about the
pastor
who’s
never been
discipled
Kyle Bueermann: himself?
Bob Bickford: Mm,
Kyle Bueermann: Yeah. What
about
that
guy?
That’s good.
I
think
that’s where
he needs
a mentor.
where
where he needs somebody who’s pouring into him
as well.
And, and, and I had that
and
that’s
where
I came across
the,
what’s, what’s
called the sword method. What
does it say
about
God,
what
it
say
about
man?
Tho those questions,
was
through a,
a
guy
at
our state convention in New
Mexico who,
who
got a group of
pastors
together
and started
walking
through
some
discipleship training material and just said, Hey,
here’s.
Here’s
what
I’ve
seen work.
What
if
we applied this in our,
in
our churches? And,
with, with
a
method
like that, you
can,
if
you
got
a,
another
man in
your church together,
you
can disciple each
other in, in,
a way, which
I
mean, I think
there’s some,
if
we
believe in
the priesthood
of
the believer, he has as much of
the Holy Spirit
as
you
do too.
You
find him
a true believer
and
you
begin
to.
Kind
of co [00:26:00] disciple one another,
but,
but you’ve gotta have
somebody
that’s pouring into
you, uh,
I
would say
an
older,
more
seasoned leader
who is
pouring
into you as well. And,
being
a,
a
discipler slash mentor
in
your own life,
and
who can ask you hard
questions,
who, you know,
can
say simply, Hey,
you know, I know you
said
you, have
this
idea
about
your church. Here’s
why I wouldn’t do that right now.
Where
you
are.
Yeah. Find
somebody they can, they can,
pour into you.
and your leadership will
be,
will
grow
exponentially
if
you have somebody
that can
disciple
you
and
help
develop
you
as a leader.
JimBo Stewart: Yeah.
I think if
you’re
a
pastor
that
hasn’t
been
discipled,
you find
somebody
to disciple
you. Yep.
And
part of
that
is,
how
do
I
disciple
my people? Mm-hmm.
Right?
So find somebody that can disciple
you
in that.
And,
you
Kyle Bueermann: know,
talking
about
JimBo Stewart: all
these
books
we
ought to
Kyle Bueermann: one
of
them
we
gotta consider is,
Hey,
they
devoted themselves
So by
Dr.
Kyle Bierman.
it does
cover,
uh,
six, six big things. And, um,
each,
at the end
of each chapter, there’s,
a
couple of
discussion questions
or
reflection questions.
So
if
[00:27:00] you’re
reading
it through
with
a group,
you
you can discuss ‘
’em if
you’re just reading it
through by yourself. Some,
some
really good things
to,
uh,
reflect on.
And then
at
the
end
of each
chapter, there’s,
uh, suggestions
for
further reading
by
folks
who
are
a
lot smarter and
wrote
really,
really
good
books
that
you
should read.
After
you
read
mine,
Thanks
for
being
on the podcast,
Kyle.
Thanks.
Thanks
for having
me
guys.
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